Dearest Ones--The Truth Shall Set You Free
It is not your fault if you have low self esteem. If you suffer from low self esteem--that is because the parents in your life did not do an efficient enough of a job at keeping you in alignment with YOUR SELF.
If your parents made everything you did, said, or needed about them, then they pulled you out of alignment with YOUR SELF.
Want to know what the key to high Self Esteem is?
The key is found in jumping into all those gaps within you, that are full of the pain of feeling ignored, abandoned, criticized, and alike.
DENIAL KILLS OUR CONNECTIONS TO SELF
We were taught to deny how we feel, and thus instead learned how to try and control others and our emotions rather than honoring the pain within us.
Because our parents denied our experiences, we mirror that behavior to Self. We ignore Self/Pain just as our parents taught us to do.
THE KEY IS FOUND IN EMBRACING THE PAIN
The parents in the above article, "jumped into the grief" caused by believing they had lost their infant son. Although they had another child born at the same time, they jumped into the gap of pain, and swam in all those glorious human, miraculous emotions. And when they did, they literally healed!
Counterintuitive, most of us avoid emotional pain--and that is the problem. By avoiding the pain--we deny our connection to the inner Self that is experiencing the pain on an emotional/vibrational/physical level.
Simply by NOT recalling the pain consciously, many of us believe we are 'getting over it' whatever 'it' is--and NOTHING could be further from the truth.
Dear Ones--take some time to jump into those moments others taught you you had no right to experience.
Honor your inner child's painful experience--and you will find that your Esteem For Your Inner Self begins to rise.
One Hour Free Tele Class On Youtube
If you have not already done so, I encourage you to watch this free tele class on Youtube. Please let me know if you enjoyed the longer video and if any of the information resonated with you, as your cues are where I will attempt to shine the most light.
I bow to the love and the light in you Dear Ones...
Lisa A. Romano
ACoA Life Coach
Stuck In The Past No More