Rather work on the enemy within….
Rather work on yourself, to achieve inner peace and happiness; than to look for these outside yourself. When you choose to focus on yourself for solutions, instead of looking outside, you work from an empowered position.
You have more control over yourself than over other people. You stand a better chance controlling your own feelings and behaviour than trying to control those of others.
Work on yourself to achieve your own greatness!
By focusing on and working on yourself, instead of looking outside, you save yourself a lot of pains associated with Vengeance; Impatience; Accusations; Grudge; Revenge; and Anger (VIAGRA!).
Think about it: the chances of you experiencing the pains associated with the V-word described above are greater when you look for feelings such as peace, love, acceptance, happiness, and gratitude outside you, instead of from within.
Next time you find yourself blaming, pointing fingers or looking for solutions or affirmations elsewhere other than from within, ask yourself the following 3 questions:
The more you view the world from a more self-focused perspective, the lesser your life will have to endure the V-pains (Vengeance; Impatience; Accusations; Grudge; Revenge; and Anger).
- What power could I bring to this situation so I could hold myself responsible, instead of other people?
- What has been my role in bringing about this situation?
- How can I make peace with the situation and take responsibility for the outcomes?
At Potential Exponents we help you access your inner wisdom, so you could live your life from a self-love and self-accountable position.
Book for your free assessment coaching session, and let the journey begin (083 628 3428 or firstname.lastname@example.org).
Shoni Khangala – Certified Inner Life Skills Master Coach
Founder and CEO: Potential Exponents
“Self-love, self-respect, self-worth. There is a reason they all start with “self”. You cannot find them in anyone else”. – Unknown